"You haven't listened to a word I've said, have you?"
Nothing makes you think faster than when your wife starts a conversation with "You haven't listened to a word I've said, have you?"
— Tony P. (@Tbone7219) February 17, 2024
Should you deny that you weren't listening? Yes! Go on the defensive. "Of course, I was listening. I was just thinking of the best response. Now I've lost my train of thought. Will you please repeat the last few things that you said?"